Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Type Z personality


To live peacefully one must learn to be a type Z person, letting go of what society dictates is a successful way to work and live.




Because I am single I am often asked what qualities I seek in a relationship partner.  I have the usual standard answers, loving, kind, funny, cute, etc.



But I have one important quality that I look for in a partner and that is a person who is willing to live their life in a relaxed and calm manner, in a happy and healthy way.  This makes for a true easy going relationship, without room for disharmony in our every day lives.  A relationship can be your sacred place of peace and harmony.  I know this sounds idealistic but it is not that hard to create.



I call a person who lives their life in a calm and relaxed manner a type Z person. 



I first learned this idea from Marcus Allen, a brilliant writer and publisher of NEW WORLD LIBRARY.  He is different and a pioneer because he chooses to live outside the mediocre rules of life yet still maintains a happy family and hugely successful business that promotes service and makes a difference in the lives of not only the readers of his book, but  within his own.(see The Millionaire Course)






A type Z person does everything that everyone else may do, but in a more MINDFUL way, with awareness.



Are you a type Z person?



Qualities of a type z person



1.   handles the day in a relaxed manner, instead of yelling at coworkers, family, customer service reps throughout the day

2.   enjoys their life, even the mundane tasks, does them with awareness

3.   does one task at a time, and does it well instead of multi tasking several at once

4.   considers what they says BEFORE speaking, will this be a good communication or a hurtful one?

5.   considers what his role in life is and follows his path regardless of what others say or may think of him

6.   is not busy every moment of the day, with to do lists that can never be completed

7.    allows time for  for himself and his family and loved ones





A type Z person knows who he is, follows his heart and lives his dreams in his own manner rather than the dictates of society.



This creates a peaceful, satisfying lifestyle.  The more persons who choose to be calm, and happy changes the balance of their environment, helping others to feel the same way, and thus we have a rippling effect, with more conscious lives and better relationships.